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BetterSex4Christians.com
"The Premier Source Of Christian Marriage
And Sex Advice Resources"
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"Highly
recommended..."
I recently stumbled upon Robert Irwin's site and was intrigued enough to request a copy of his system.
Most stuff I am sent on this topic is garbage.
Either it is vulgar and unhealthy or it is very lightweight.
Robert is a Christian, but no one could call him a prude...for sure.
He addresses the performance issues many men face and delves deeply into ways that men can increase the satisfaction for their wives as well as themselves.
I was so impressed that I have included his system in the Lovemaking Resources section of my site.
Highly recommended!
Michael Webb
Relationship Expert, Author, Speaker
http://www.theromantic.com
(A #1 Best-selling author and Relationship Expert, Michael Webb has appeared on over 500 radio and television shows including Oprah, Men are From Mars Women are From Venus, NBC
News,
The 700 Club, The Other Half, and FOX News.)
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"...we are discovering a
deep connection through sex..."
Hey Robert,
Your interview will be published in a book I am writing called What
You Didn’t Learn From Your Parents About Sex—A Guide To A Touchy
Subject. It will appear in the section called What You Need To Know
About Sex Before You Get Married...
...Also, thank you for writing such a frank book about sex. I’ve only
been married for a little more than a year and your book has truly
helped me see me and my wife’s sex life as a journey. Slowly but
surely, we are discovering a deep connection through sex. And your
wisdom and research has certainly been a part of that growth process.
Did you see your mention in Details magazine last month? I thought
that was awesome. (I may have mentioned that you before.) I think you
should be on Oprah. If you need a cheerleader, let me know.
Matthew Paul Turner
Author, Speaker
http://www.matthewpaulturner.com
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As a Pastor, with a Doctorate in Theology..."
I downloaded your system 3 hours ago and I am thrilled with this
information…it will help my marriage, though we have no problems in
our marriage at all. I wanted to go a step further in pleasing my
Wife.
As a pastor, with a Doctorate in Theology, I know it will help my
relationship with my wife tremendously.
It will also help in counseling.
I found myself repeatedly laughing over how I share the same desires
and the same ignorance towards this subject as some other men.
Thank you!
Alan Culbert
Naples, Florida
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"Thanks for being real, honest, and serving Christian
husbands..."
I downloaded your e-book Sexual Skills for the Christian
Husband and found it truly successful. I began the exercises and just
the basic advice given when making love to my wife.
She was skeptical at first until after the first night and then she
couldn't wait to get the kids to bed the next night. I got them
settled in and when I came back to bed she was wearing a skimpy teddy
that I hadn't seen in months.
Needless to say, after just reading a couple of chapters, my wife and
I can't wait for me to finish the book and put into practice all of
it. She said, while in tears, "I feel like we are one and closer than
ever before. This is what I dreamed marriage would be."
Now to the problem. The hard drive on my home computer received a
virus and failed... Please allow me to download the book again... I
must read the rest and apply it.
Thanks for being real, honest, and serving Christian husbands!
Steven Dentice
Age 44
Facilities Manager
Sherwood, AR |
"...you are backing your guarantee so swiftly speaks
well of you..."
Dear Robert Irwin and staff:
I am only requesting a refund of the $12, not the full $49. I'm not
sure if I was misunderstood or if it is your policy to refund the full
amount.
I appreciate your speed in this matter. It is impressive that you are
backing your guarantee so swiftly. It speaks well of you.
Sondra Halliwell
Age 43
San Francisco, CA
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"...I have already found myself ... treating my wife
with more tenderness and care."
"...Thank you so much for the system and the word of encouragement.
I began to read it immediately and am making a commitment to work at
it.
I have already checked out the other site and appreciate your telling
me about it.
I have already found myself quoting your system in my mind (NOT out
loud) and treating my wife with more tenderness and care.
Thank you again for your encouragement and the system you have no idea
how much this means to me.
I was NOT suggesting or expecting such a generous thoughtful reply. I
trust your generosity will be rewarded by a prosperous year."
Brian Jenson
Technical Writer
Age 48
Philadelphia, PA
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"...she has climaxed during intercourse every time"
"...The 'perfect sex position' really is perfect!
Well, at least my batting average is perfect since starting to use
it...
Before, Ann never climaxed during intercourse.
I thought that there was something wrong with her or me.
In the past month, she has climaxed during intercourse (at least
once!) every time.
This is what I always thought sex was supposed to be."
Mel Kaffrey
Construction Supervisor
Age 45
New York, N.Y.
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"It's a manual that should be taken very
seriously..."
I bought your book a couple of days ago. I have never had problems
with giving my wife an orgasm in bed but you always wonder if
that was it or if there is better sex...
There are things that are in your book that really took me
by surprise...
I know that I need to change a lot of how I
handle sex. But even in changing my attitude with my wife
and making it fun has created more of a desire for intimacy...
This is not only a book that men should read but its a manual
that should be taken very seriously and should be given out
or bought for young couples that are just getting or just got
married...
Matthew
X-Ray Technician
Age 37
Miami, FL
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"...This book has helped in so many ways..."
"Firstly, I would just like to say what an AMAZING book you have
written - my husband
and I have read it together and taken in it's points. We are working
together to
make our sex lives better and this book is incredible
- I cannot thank you enough,
and I agree with you that I found this website with the help of God.
Both my husband
and I are indebted to you!
We have always had a solid marriage of 21 years, but it is always nice
to
improve our sex lives together!
This book has helped in so many other areas of our sex lives that I
know that multiple orgasms are a definite possibility soon.
Once again, thank you for your brilliant book!!!!"
Catherine Cerzone
Homemaker
Age 43
North Versailles, PA |
"...her orgasms are completely different, deeper and
more satisfying"
"...Thirty two years old and I hadn't really ever found a 'G Spot.'
Now I could find it with my hands tied behind my back...and we may try
that soon!
Until I tried your system, I was convinced that all female orgasms
were basically a clitoris thing. So did my Wife...until now.
She told me that the orgasms I've been giving her lately (using your G
Spot stimulation techniques), are really different and more intense"
Jeff Ailes
Nurse
Age 47
Houston, TX
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"...it is like a miracle..."
Hi Robert
I just want to thank you very much for your e-book. It has literally
made a huge difference to our sexual enjoyment, and to me, it is like
a miracle.
I was just scrolling through some Christian sites on the web when I
happened to notice your advert. It came at a time recently when we
were having marriage counseling and one of the big issues was the fact
that i had lost interest in sex...
...When I read your advert I thought 'this is meant for me' and it
must have been a God given gift. I am approaching 60 and really
thought I would not experience sexual desire again...
...I tried the exercises again and related the muscles to the ones
that experience arousal during sex...
...Well, all I can say is I have found pleasure related nerve endings
that I never knew I had and sex is now a real pleasure...
...So I thank you both for your inspired book and the help you have
given me (and Paul)...
Best regards
Heather
Age 58
Sedona, AZ
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"...3 orgasms in less than an hour..."
"...I was absolutely sure that all of that multi-orgasmic male stuff
in your letter was exaggerated..
But, I had to tell you that, last night, I had 3 orgasms in less than
an hour! My wife asked me if I was using Viagra. I was as amazed as
she was."
Steve Neff
Sales
Age 39
Phoenix, AZ
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"...she loves to make me orgasm over and over..."
"...I don't try the non-ejaculatory orgasm stuff all the time, they
are too intense. But, now that we have learned how to do them, she
loves to make me orgasm over and over. It's like she has a new toy."
Rob Franks
Computer Technician
Age 27
Anson, TX.
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"...brought her to climax, orally, very quickly..."
"...In the past, it sometimes took a real long time to make her
orgasm. Now that I know what to do, orally, I have brought her to
climax very quickly, many times..."
Steve Franz
Machinist
Age 34
Orlando, FL
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"...so excited, she almost cried"
"...She had never had an ejaculatory orgasm before. When she finally
came, she was so excited, she told me that she almost cried."
David Heffron
Financial Analyst
Age 51
Providence, RI. |
"...easier to please her now"
"...I was making four of the five mistakes! It is so much easier to
please her now."
Edward Ceptcik
Graphic Artist
Age 29
Atlanta, GA |
"Susan,
Thank you so much for this book.
Until reading the chapter on "Understanding Men And Sex," I hadn't
really factored in how much the physical and emotional differences
between us were causing problems.
Now that I have stopped fighting his "guy" tendencies, I have
started to appreciate them. He seemed to, almost immediately,
recognize my change of attitude and started to display more interest
in intimacy.We still
have a way to go, but he actually initiated sex this week!"
~Megan, San Diego, CA |
"The section on
"When he's an emotional mess and you soon will be" was the first
section I (had to) read!
That is exactly how I was feeling!
I love my husband, but until now, I was becoming an emotional mess.
Thank you for helping me to feel
less like a "freak" for wanting more sex.
And thank you for giving me
hope for making our marriage everything I need it to be."
~Kit, Sewickley, PA |
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are you both bringing to bed" actually made me cry.
I realized that many of MY issues
were affecting his sexual desire for me.
Last weekend, we actually
talked about our lack of sex - without fighting.
He told me that he hadn't felt
comfortable being "honest" with me before. Now he does!
Its a start. And, we have next
weekend completely free of kids. I will definitely be trying some of
your "sexual environment" ideas.
God bless you and Robert!"
~Janet, Amarillo, TX |
| "Thanks for
saving me money on a new diet book!
As I mentioned in my last email, I
have gained around 30 lbs in the past year or so. And, I thought
that this was the reason that my husband was showing little
interest, sexually.
As it turns out, he actually
finds my new, more curvy, body very attractive. He actually asked me
NOT to lose any weight.
Apparently, his lack of desire
was caused by HIS weight gain and his concern that I no longer found
him attractive.
Since we had that conversation,
we have started showering together again and this has led to lots of
fun!"
~Gayle, Oklahoma City, OK |
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I can't believe I thought my
biggest problem was a lack of sex.
I did need sex, but until we
started to have more regular sex (and he has started being more
interested in intimacy overall with me), I didn't realize how many
other areas of my life had been negatively affected.
I haven't been remotely
interested in visiting those internet sites anymore. I actually
found the energy to put in those workout tapes that had been
collecting dust. I (think) that I have been far more patient with my
step-son lately.
It is like you say, "Sex is
only an issue when you aren't getting any."
Thank you, soooo much!"
~Rachel, Marco Island, FL |
"Robert,
Many thanks for the diligent work you do. Christ has blessed our
marriage richly thru the things I have learned from you.
Thanks again for all you do."
Stewart
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"Thank you so much
for the information.
Not only has it blessed me, but it has equipped me for ministry also.
I coordinate a living waters program here in New Zealand and am also
Pastoring a church with my wife.
Finding your website was not a coincidence, as you said, but truly of
the Lord. It has broadened, educated and equipped me tremendously.
Bless you guys for the great work you are doing."
Atu
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"Hi Robert
I just want to thank you very much for your e-book. It has literally
made a huge difference to our sexual enjoyment, and to me, it is like
a miracle.
I was just scrolling through some Christian sites on the web when I
happened to notice your advert. It came at a time recently when we
were having marriage counseling and one of the big issues was the fact
that I had lost interest in sex. When I read your advert I thought
'this is meant for me' and it must have been a God given gift. I am
approaching 60 and really thought I would not experience sexual desire
again.
So I thank you both for your inspired book and the help you have given
me and my husband.
Best regards"
Heather
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"I’ve never been
answered back (let alone had my problem solved) that quickly by anyone
online.
MANY thanks! You’ll be hearing from me again..."
Titus
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"Hi Robert, I just
want to say thank you for what your books have done for my wife and I.
We have been married 25 years last week and for the first time in our
marriage my wife is actually enjoying sex.
Neither of us knew the proper way of sex, and due to many inhibitions
imposed wrongly by "the church" we never really were game to seek more
"training".
My wife feels exhilarated. It is improving her health, and I finally
feel like a man.
For once we are truly "one flesh". We have only had your book about
three weeks and the difference is amazing.
We want to tell more people about your book.
Thank you once again."
David and Heather
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"I just got your
books.
The best part is that you spent time in the explaining why sex isn't
bad. Unfortunately I meet tons of clients with that oppression on them
and have struggled with it myself.
I am very excited and grateful to have something to read that I don't
feel weird New Age vibes from, also!
AGAIN, I totally endorse and will recommend your written material. I
am a Christian counselor and have had a difficult time in the past
recommending any books with technique as it was usually non-christian.
Sincerely"
Gretchen
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"I've just
purchased and downloaded your two books -- for the Christian husband
and the Christian wife.
Thank you for your guides - I love the way they are written, in short
chunks of information, with a straightforward style. And the
information is very good!
Thank you for the education!"
Dash
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"Hi Robert,
I feel I was led by the Lord to find your book on the Internet.
After prayer, I downloaded your book last Tuesday and have read it on
my own avidly over the past few days.
How I wish it had been around and I had found it when I was first
married nearly 24 years ago!
Your book has had the effect of switching on the light bulb! I am now
tacking stock and seeing my beloved wife in a new and beautiful
God-centered way. I have started on the exercises and am praying and
waiting for the moments over the coming weeks to share my new found
discoveries with my wonderful wife, particularly the existence of your
book.
Yours in Jesus,"
Stephen
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"Robert,
I really appreciate that you bothered to reply to my email.
This week I have had a real life “Abraham and Isaac experience” with
my marriage... I knew the way I was going was right with God even
though it went against everything that I thought to be right! God is
amazing and awesome.
The info is amazing and we have read most of the way through both
books.
My husband was disillusioned and desperate for some way to connect
with me and this has certainly provided an excellent platform. I never
knew that a sexual relationship could have so much potential, I
assumed that what I had was what I would have to live with. Thank you
for proving me wrong and for providing us with the information to
renew and strengthen our relationship.
It's one small step, but it's one in the right direction.
God bless you and your wife.
Sincerely,"
Sarah
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"Hi Robert
I dropped you an email soon after buying your book, on my immediate
positive reaction after an initial skimming through it. I have now
read it twice. It is truly inspired and in the short time I have owned
it has changed so much in my life.
For the first time in my life I feel a wholeness and completeness
about my sexuality and my relationship with the Lord and my
relationship with my wife. It is truly amazing how, for the first
time, I have begun to put my wife's sexual needs before my own. It has
changed my whole perception of sexual love and togetherness. My sex
life is now no longer goal driven and in a compartment. I am beginning
to feel truly holistic. I praise the Lord for my finding your book.
Thank you once again and please keep up your work.
Yours in Christ,"
Stephen
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"Dear Robert and
Susan,
I will be teaching a marriage seminar at my church this coming Sunday.
I will be using your book for part of my teaching. So, thank you for
your time and effort in writing this document as it will bless a
multitude of people."
Paula
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"Hello Robert,
Thank you for your courage to write this book. Pastors need to
recognize the ethical value of sexology for healthy marriages. The
human person is so profoundly affected by sexuality that it must be
considered as one of the principle, formative influences in a person's
spiritual growth. Your book is a great step forward in Christian
Sexology, a sexology within a marital culture. St. Paul in Eph 5
asserts that sex is a profound sign of the love between Christ and his
Church. Sex not only participates in this divine love, it actualizes
it, and communicates it!
Robert you book is refreshing in that it talks openly about sex within
a marital culture. Sex is one of the most, if not the most, intimate
human love. Nothing in the order of creation so perfectly reveals
divine love.
Thanks."
Mike
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"YOU FOLKS HAVE THE
BEST PRODUCT ON EARTH !!!!!
We can't tell you how much both of your books mean to us.
If you have anything else you think we should have to enrich our
romantic moments together, for the rest of our lives ------------- let
us know.
You folks have helped us more that you will believe."
John
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"I purchased your
book for Christian Wives yesterday and loved it. I read it in one day.
Thank you for your boldness to teach that marital sex can be erotic
and exciting; as well as safe, intimate, and loving.
My husband and I are very excited about what we have read (no pun
intended).
Thank you,"
Beth
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"Dear Robert and
Susan,
First, I wish to thank you on behalf of my husband and myself for all
the work you have done on the subject of Christian sex and lovemaking.
We feel that you have handled an extremely sensitive subject
remarkably well.
We have benefited a lot from your experiences and writings, and I am
sure that we will continue to do so.
Kindest regards and best wishes,"
Kirsten
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"Dear Robert:
Thank you! This is vital information for the class my wife and I are
teaching at our church entitled "Sexual Intimacy in Marriage".
God Bless."
Dick
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"First of all,
thank you very much for these E-books, I was not expecting so much.
I have read most of SSCH, and I am quite impressed with how frank and
explicit it is. It's hard to find sources, especially those with the
"Christian" label that are brave enough to spout all the gritty
details.
Oh, and “props” on your sense of humor.."
Mark
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"Dear Robert,
I have just recently purchased both of your books, Sexual Satisfaction
for the Christian Wife and Husband. I have to say that I am truly
blessed.
For the most part, our marriage has been wonderful. We love each other
very much and are totally devoted to each other and to our faith. But,
we have always struggled with great sex.
I am 30 years old and never even came close to an "O", until we read
your books and I finally felt like sex was something that God wanted
us to do and enjoy.
I thank you for letting me know, and millions of others, God's views
on sex and that we can and will be able to enjoy sex to its fullest.
We have tried several different books and videos to help us learn how
to make our sex life better, but I felt that nothing helped until I
found your books.
Like you say, I did not find it by accident; God's timing is always
perfect. So thank you.
Thank you for helping my relationship. I pray that the Lord blesses
you and your wife 10 fold for your work in getting His truth out to
the world.
God bless,"
A Canadian sister in Christ
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"Hi Robert,
I purchased your books online a few days ago and my wife and I started
to practice its techniques on Monday.
It is with absolute amazement that I can tell you that it is now two
days later and it has already made a huge impact on our lives. The
following absolutely became true for us within 2 days: "Used properly,
sex can bring us closer to God and each other. It can improve our
mental, physical and emotional well-being. It can strengthen our
marriages and families"
I am totally convinced that it was the power of God that lead me to
your website. You mention in your book that If you put your faith in
God miracles can happen. It surely did for me and my wife.
Regards"
Attie
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"Yes, my husband
has that book and found it quite helpful.
We are enjoying your books.
As a newly married couple, we find them helpful.
Thank you very much!"
Lyndsay
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"Thanks to you
and your wife, my husband and I have a new found relationship in our
Christian sex lives, he's only been saved a little while, but because
of this he now understands that God wants us to have a passionate sex
life too.
This site has Blessed us more than we could ever express.
God Bless you two,"
Tanner
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"Thanks so much
Robert for such inspiring books on sexual pleasure.
I have tried some of your suggestions and found them to be effective.
Stay blessed!"
Maxwell
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"Robert,
I just wanted to encourage you to continue what you are doing (or what
God is doing) with this ministry.
So many people within Christianity view sex from a legalistic
standpoint which God never intended. Certainly sex requires boundaries
that we all need to respect and within those boundaries, we can have a
great sex life!
Thanks for bringing clarity from a Christian perspective to the topic
of sex.
Keep up the good work.
Regards,"
Shaun
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